You want to move forward.

You watch others take risks, break the rules,
and somehow… things work out for them.

So you ask yourself:
Why does it seem so easy for them?
Why can’t I move like that?

In Ferris Bueller’s Day Off, Ferris moves freely.
He's not fighting the system, he's moving around it.

But the people chasing him don’t.

His sister.
The principal.

They fixate on catching him.
And that fixation pulls them deeper into it.

The more they hold on,
the more stuck they become.

It’s only when his sister lets it go
that something changes.

The tension is lifted.
And something new opens up.

Comparison starts as a way to measure ourselves.

But when it becomes fixation,
it stops helping.

Because the focus shifts outward
and we lose track of where we are.

And when that happens,
we don’t move forward.

We stay stuck,
circling something that isn’t ours.

Reflection

We’ve all felt this.

Watching someone else move through life
while we stay fixed on why we can’t.

But at some point, the question changes:

What am I holding onto
that’s keeping me here?

Video Review

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They’re pointing somewhere.

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