Reflections on the deeper meaning behind the films we watch.
In Top Gun (1986), Maverick is one of the most talented pilots in the room—and he knows it.
He’s confident. He pushes limits. And he’s not afraid to show it.
And that’s exactly what puts him at odds with everyone around him. Because confidence can look like arrogance. And standing out can make people uncomfortable.
But then something happens that shakes him. A moment that breaks his rhythm… his belief… his identity as a pilot. And suddenly, that confidence disappears.
But what we see in Maverick is something deeper. He doesn’t just fly well. He loves it. There’s pride in what he does. A real connection to his ability.
And rebuilding isn’t just about getting his skill back, it’s about choosing to step back into that identity again.
We all have things we’re good at. Things we’ve worked on. Built over time.
Things that started from curiosity… and became something more.
But somewhere along the way, many of us learn to soften that.
To downplay it.
To not say it out loud.
Because we’re told to be humble.
To not stand out too much.
But there’s a difference between humility…
and shrinking.
Taking pride in what you’ve built, in what you’re capable of, doesn’t take away from anyone else.
It allows you to show up fully. And sometimes, that’s exactly what others need to see.
Maverick doesn’t become someone new.
He returns to who he already was, and chooses to own it.
It was cool in the air, but I prefer my paws on the ground.
When have you known you were good at something… but held it back?
Pay attention to the stories that move you.
They’re pointing somewhere.
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